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The Innocent Third Person
It seems that, when it comes to sex and romance, most people wouldn't even consider being with a person who's in a monogamous relationship with another person; especially a person who's in a monogamous relationship with a friend or family member, or has had that kind of relationship with a friend or family member in the past. They'd just consider the person off-limits; even if they're attracted to the person; even if the person comes on to them.
If you ask them why they restrict themselves to people who have no sexual or romantic connection with other people; especially friends and family members; their answer would probably have to do with how the other people would feel about it. Their answer would probably have to do with the fact that they'd probably be upset or emotionally distraught about it and, in the case of friends and family members, feel betrayed on some level.
But I dont care how they'd feel about it; at-least not enough to reject the lure of a girl I'm attracted to. In fact, my stance against the absurdity of monogamous relationships tells me that it's okay; because I'm not doing anything wrong. After all, I'm not the one breaking a commitment I never would've made in the first place. I'm just the innocent third person the first person decided to break their commitment with the second person to be with. And if the second person; stranger, friend or family member; wants to put the blame on me, that's on them.
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